I need some feedback on this one. My boyfriend lives at home with his family until he finishes buying his house; he's really close to them. I live 2 hours away at college.
Here's my question.
He's been on a business trip for a week, and I have seen him for 3 hours in the last 3 weeks. I am down here for my Spring Break, and in my head, I expect him (he doesn't know this) to spend the 3 days I'm down here with me. But he wants to be with his family some too. I think that he gets to spend every single evening with them, so why can't I have these few days? I'd say we should just both go over to his house and play games with his family; but they don't like me. Honestly, I only know why one of them doesn't, but the rest...I don't know. Anyway, they give him crap if he brings me over too often, which has now turned into I never go over there. That's a whole other can of worms that maybe one day I'll blog about. It'd probably make me feel better :P.
I understand of course that he is a grown man and can do with his time what he pleases. But am I wrong in feeling how I do? Am I just being a selfish girlfriend? I know that I am perfectly content spending the majority of my time with him, but he isn't. Which is fine, I just need to know if I am wrong in feeling like I "deserve" these few days with him.