Thursday, April 21, 2011

Day 9

Share your thoughts on the advantages and disadvantages of being married/single.

Well my opinions on this are pretty obvious.  I believe in love, and the pursuit of love throughout your life time.  I feel like that is what life is about, loving other people, yourself, and being happy.  I believe that some people can't handle marriage, and its good that they know that about themselves.  For me, I am excited to be married.  I am excited to be able to lay next to the man I love every night, I am excited to have him there to talk to everyday.  I am excited to be able to ask his advice, and to be able to cuddle with him as we do homework.  I am excited to cook together (sorry, burn food together), I am excited to wake up to his kiss in the morning.  I can't wait to be able to work on our communication...to fight in person rather than over IM.  I am excited to watch movies together and to read together, to come home to a house that has the man I love in it.  Pretty much, I'm excited to get married.
Disadvantages?  I won't be able to be selfish.  I have to clean the house, do a two person budget, juggle two lives, make food...Life becomes less about what I need to get done, and what OUR needs are.  It's a little scary. 
All in all, I really am super excited (I've used that word too often in this blog) to be getting married in 85 days.  I'll be able to spend every day with my best friend.  What could be better than that?

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